How to Get My Girlfriend Back - Stop Wailing, Start Analyzing
You’re heartbroken. You’re emotional. Ever since she broke up with you, you have never been the same man. But how can you tell you truly want her back, that you’re not just wailing “Tell me how to get my girlfriend back!” as a knee-jerk reaction to a bad breakup? Take this four-way test.
1. Do you feel the urge to spy on her?
Do you jump at the slightest excuse to cruise past her house, walk around her neighborhood, or chug beer down at her regular watering hole? Nothing says in need and in love more than the compulsion to spy.
2. Are you practically glued to your phone or your laptop because of her?
Are you checking your email even as you read this? Do you carry the telephone around for fear that you would miss her call? Do you sometimes see her name where it shouldn’t be - on the From portion of every mail, for example?
3. Do you feel like tearing up - or actually do - each time you hear her name, catch a whiff of a scent that is so much like hers, or see her photo?
As far as syndromes of wanting to get back the ex go, this one is a home run. Not only have you not let go of her, you’re living with, for, and in her memory.
4. Do you rehearse what to say to her in the off-chance you run into her?
Do you practice your lines before a mirror? Does coming up with new lines help you sleep?
If you answered yes to at least two questions, you are truly not over her yet. In fact, you have it bad. Not only is every fiber of your being screaming “Show me how to get my girlfriend back!”, you have put your life on hold for her while you wait for the chance to rekindle old sparks.
Don’t despair, though, and stop pleading with friends, family, and even your retriever. Deal with the problem proactively by starting a campaign. Analyze why she left and in the meantime, don’t let yourself go to seed. Buff up. Learn to laugh again. Revisit the person you had been before. Show her that while you may hurt over her, you are still whole - a person who is easy to love and will love back in return.
September 13th, 2008 at 10:39 am
Very Good points. I like the first point of always wanting to spy on her! I know what its like to lose a girlfriend. It hurts inside (you know the pain) After a lot of hard work I got my girlfriend Back. Now I treat her like the QUEEN she IS! You don’t have to go it alone, there’s a lot of good help books to walk you hand-in-hand on how to get your girlfrind back!
Good Luck.
Intellifax